People will tell you “be confident! You’re beautiful just the way you are,” but as soon as you start to listen, as soon as you start to believe it, you’re labeled as vain and conceited. That is ridiculous. Don’t ever let someone put you down for having confidence and loving who you are. Ignore those who call you beautiful and then call you out when you agree. Do not feel bad for liking the way you look or how smart and funny you are. That’s how it’s SUPPOSED to be. You’re not supposed to hate yourself, you’re not supposed to put yourself down and you SHOULD think that you’re beautiful. You should know. We’ve all been tricked to think that insecurity is the same as humility. That is a lie. ‘Insecure’ is not a default setting for a human being. Do not be afraid to think of yourself as brilliant and fantastic and worthy. Love yourself and be proud, be honored to be who you are. It doesn’t help to think otherwise.

Anonymous asked:

Me and this kid I know we talk all the time and I like him a lot I was really scared one night because the night before someone tried braking into my house and I am still scared and he said don't be scared talk to me but I know who he likes but I wish it was me I tell him everything and he is the only person that doesn't judge me for it and he tells me everything and I think he just considers me a best friend and that sucks😫

If you really like the kid, you might have to be content with being his friend, at least for a little while. If it’s meant to be, it will be. Best of luck to you, I know how you’re feeling!! Continue to talk to him, and be there for him when he needs you. He should return the favor, even if y’all are just friends. Hope this helps!!

Anonymous asked:

Okay so their is this bad spirit that is following me around it's the same one that followed my two uncles around it attacked both if them plus one of my uncles dad it attacked his dad so bad he ended up in the hospital and every time I try texting someone about it my phone cashes and I'm terrified it will attack me next

I really don’t know anything about this or what you and your family are going through, but my best advice is always to pray and to maybe seek help from a priest or someone well versed on stuff like that. Sending all the love, luck and light I can to you guys!!!

Anonymous asked:

okay so basically theres this guy hes truly an amazing person and i really really like him, but the problem is that about 8 months ago we had a thing and it was pretty serious. we texted 24/7 one time we stayed up till 4 in the morning on a school day. (i was a freshman now a sophomore, and hes now a junior) and i reaaalllyy liked him and he told me he loved me and i did feel the same way. and then when we were 'official' or whatever he stopped talking to me and i have no idea why..(part one)

(part 2) and im still in love with him and i know i am because i can feel it and its unexplainable. and idk i still cry over him and of course just my luck hes mt neighbor and we’re vacationing at the same place at the same time… idk what to do i really wanna get over him but he is seriously so perfect and i love him so much. ive had depression issues, and have self harmed..i never told him but i stopped so he wouldnt find out.. and i was actually happy with him. he helped me through a lot…

Try to talk to him about it, okay? Just try. If nothing comes out of that, you’re going to need to move on because someone who ignores you and just stops talking to you like that is NOT worth your time, your energy, your thoughts or your presence. You deserve so much better than what he’s putting you through, especially if he’s doing this with malicious intent. Talk to him and talk about how he made you feel. And if it doesn’t work out, you can cry and whine about it as much as you need to, but at some point you’re going to have to pick yourself up and move on as best as you can…distract yourself, find a hobby, find good friends, talk to your family and find who you are without him. I wish you all the best and I’m sending all the love I can. I really hope this helps.

Anonymous asked:

Hi I'm 17 years old. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We were just like any other couple until he went to a party without me and cheated on me. My best friend ended up telling me. So I called him and asked him to come over so he can explain what happened. We ended up getting into a really big fight and I said that I wanted to break up. He slapped me after I said that. I have know idea what to do! I love him but I can't stay with him if he's going to be abusive...

Break up with him, tell your parents, tell HIS parents. That kind of behavior is intolerable and you do not need to be with someone like that, no matter what. You do not deserve to be abused, whether it’s a physical slap or a verbal one. End it. It won’t be easy, but you’ll find someone who won’t treat you that way. You deserve better.

Anonymous asked:

Basically I was speaking to this guy for a while and he told me he liked me, but I never said it back (I do though) and we've kind of seen each other since but it got complicated and we kinda stopped talking. A couple of weeks ago we were both at a party and started speaking again, he still likes me and got jealous when I was with another boy. Last night I found out via Facebook that he's in a relationship as of yesterday. I know this is mean but she is GROSS. What should i do?! I'm really sad:(

Move on. You have to, for your own peace and sanity. I know you really liked him, but you deserve someone that’s going to be with YOU when he likes you, not someone else. Hope this helps!

Anonymous asked:

Okay sooo my dad has like really bad anger problems and he's always smacking me and hitting me when he gets mad, but it's even when hes mad at something else. he comes home and yells and screams and hits my brother and I, I can't take it anymore, what should I do

Tell everyone. I’m serious. Your teachers, your principle, your other family members. And call 911. Get to a safe place with your brother. The national child abuse hotline is 1-800-422-4453. Call there to report and get help. This isn’t going to be easy but you HAVE to do it, okay? You have to, no excuses. Don’t wait any longer. You and your brother are going to be okay. Don’t be scared.